your post is disturbing on levels. you wrote: "I just can't live the rest of my life without that kiss." well, if you really cannot live without kissing this woman, then you are NOT ready to get married to your fiance. sorry, but you're not. i find it hard to believe that you are in "agony" and have been pining away for this woman all this time, but gone on to date another woman for 5 years, fall in, and get engaged. it is not fair to your fiance that you are this immature and ridiculous. and i fail to how kissing your friend would put the matter to rest. if anything, it would make it worse. my advice is that you grow up and don't anyone for a while. men who are ready to and excited to have found their life partner are not obsessing about kissing a time friend. please stay single. your fiance deserves better. in fact, all women do.

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